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Women and Their Similarities

I have observed for a while, women of different age groups, trying to pin down what really makes them unique. I have come to notice certain strains of similarity which I will expand on, though at the risk of sounding prejudiced. I really am aware that not all women are the same but nevertheless they carry some of these similarities:

1. Love and relationships

Women are serious creatures where love and relationships are concerned. When a woman loves, she does with one goal, to make it work! To this end women usually get burnt out from their efforts as they apply themselves ruthlessly to this task. Sometimes they lose themselves , drown head and shoulders and make a lot of emotional investment, which leaves them exhausted and feeling rejected and unwanted. All this is contrary to their male counterpart who takes it easy, stretches himself only to withdraw when things start getting too hot. No wonder men are called the head because they use their heads most of the time in a relationship, while women use their hearts and are most likely to get heartbroken. Women also engage in petty jealousies as a result of using too much heart and effort. They are simply trying to protect their investment.

2. Need for intimacy

It is also women who initiate and need lots of intimacy. Men would engage in arms length relationships if left to their devices but it is women who bring them down to mother earth and engage them in intimacy. Grudgingly they oblige but are quick to withdraw as soon as they feel that they are losing their autonomy and power. Women have a tough time trying to keep their men hooked.

3. Shopping

Shopping is like an aphrodisiac to women, it gets them excited and rejuvenated just like aphrodisiacs do to a man that is suffering impotence. Women shop for the sake of shopping, not that they need anything but just for the sake of doing it. Looking into their closets a few days after a shopping spree, one woman starts asking herself what she was thinking when she bought all that stuff or that particular outfit, another will be nursing a guilty conscience but the cycle would start again at the next opportunity to go shopping. It is like being hooked on therapy .Shopping is like a therapeutic exercise; you feel good immediately after but still feel miserable a few days later.

4. Sharing or downloading information

Women like to talk. They spend a considerable amount of time talking to each other about every subject on earth. Unlike their male friends, talking creates a sense of bonding in women and they delight in just lending an ear or sharing the latest gossip. It’s also scary the amount and type of information women share and download on each other, some of it very intimate. It is however, just like shopping, an exercise in therapy. This species tends to understand each other and it is not unusual to find strangers engaging in a tête-à-tête and giving each other advice of all kinds.

5. What do women spend their time doing?

Making up, of course! Women pay particular attention to how they look, whether they are models, professionals, business women or ordinary housewives. Women value their looks more than the time spent creating the look. It is called “Make up”, meaning that they spend time creating the look that they want to project to the world. Some might argue that they do not spend that much time applying make up, but I bet you they do spend considerable time in font of a mirror , rehearsing the look that they want to project to the world.

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